Popular disc jockey and philanthropist DJ Cuppy has addressed women who fail to have an identity outside of their relationships.
She recently shared that more women need to reach the point where their sense of value is not tied to having a partner.
Speaking via a viral clip circulating online, Cuppy expressed how proud she is to know that most of her accomplishments in life have nothing to do with a man.
Sharing that Isaiah 54:5 is to thank for keeping her grounded, she noted that since God is the one who created any perfect partner she could possibly hope for, her focus should be on Him.
According to her, it does not matter who a woman envisions her life partner to be, as long as God remains the Creator of every human being, we should never put anyone before Him.
“I’m probably not the only woman in this situation. A lot of my wins and value right now are not necessarily with or from a partner.”
For your real husband is the one who created you, Lord of all the earth.
It reminds me that actually anyone I fantasize about — my perfect man, my perfect partner — he was created by the Creator. That means we shouldn’t put anyone where God should be,” she said.
Emphasizing that God can always fill any gap in our lives, the DJ urged her fellow women to believe that the right person will always come at the right time.
“If you feel like you’re missing something in your life, you’re not. God fills gaps and He will never desert you.
While you’re waiting, know that the right person will come at the right time. What is for you will not pass you. Solidarity and strength #CuppyDat,” she added.
