Senior pastor of Daystar Christian Centre, Sam Adeyemi, has advised men against pursuing manhood enhancement, stressing that true effectiveness in relationships matters more than physical size.
During a Sunday sermon on leadership, which was posted on his church’s YouTube channel, Adeyemi shared his insights. He expressed concern about the increasing number of male enhancement products advertised online, cautioning men to focus on connection and understanding in their relationships rather than physical attributes.
“If you are a young guy, let me encourage you because it is there; it’s all over the internet now. Are they not there? Everywhere you look, you will see either medicine or one Chinese method of elongating your…” Adeyemi said, emphasizing that the size of one’s manhood is far less important than skill and genuine connection.
The author of “Build Real Wealth: Practical Steps to Regain Financial Stability” urged young men not to let social media or societal expectations mislead them. He reiterated that “it is not the length that matters but the effectiveness, the skills and your love for the other person.”
Adeyemi, 57, further commented on how social media creates unrealistic ideals, leading to insecurities and trauma. He recalled an incident from his all-boys secondary school days, where some of his classmates went to measure their private parts and compare them, noting that “Nothing destroys self-image more than that. It is nonsense.”
The pastor’s message emphasizes the importance of focusing on genuine connections and personal growth, rather than succumbing to societal pressures and unrealistic expectations.
Judith Iyoh writes fashion, lifestyle and real estate investment.
