Popular Sex Coach, Erotic Companion and Adult Entertainment Expert Kebu Joy Philip, renowned as Goddess Jhay, speaks with Apples Bite Magazine on her plans for her sexuality, business and a number of other interesting issues. Enjoy excerpts.
Sweden recently declared sex as a sport and declared a tournament for sex. How do you react to this development? Do you think Nigeria and other parts of the world should emulate this?
Very hilarious, but why is Sex a tournament? Is Sex a sport? I think such moves only continue to ingrain the wrong conditioning about sex. Sex is supposed to be something enjoyed between two people without the need to attach a goal to it. Anyways, good luck to everyone participating. Especially to the women whose bodies will become a hunting ground for the championship
Have you explored sex with those of other sexual orientations other than yours?Definitely yes! The only orientation I am yet to explore and looking forward to is homosexual.
You recently acquired a certificate in self-meditation and all that, tell me. about it.
Oh yes! Meditation has been such a valuable part of my mental health and spiritual journey. It’s been very useful for me as someone who experiences ADHD and has also been of immense value to my clients. I use meditation in my Coaching and Massage therapy Services and it’s remarkable. I started getting this nudge in my spirit to pursue a more spiritually inclined career, and as a born & gifted healer, I realized meditation would be a great tool and skill to master to help further evolve my gifts. So I took a certification course in both Reiki Energy Healing & Meditation and got certified as a Reiki Distant Energy Healing Specialist & Meditation Facilitator.
That allows me to serve professionally as a healer and a mindfulness practitioner.
How has 2023 been for you so far?
2023, I must say has been revealing and glorious! It’s been challenging, but this time the challenges have been stepping stones to something greater.
This year, I am uncovering the depth of who I was designed to be on a soul level and I am becoming more centered and at peace with everything in existence. Life is answering to my commands for elevation and expansion and everything is wonderfully guided by a higher force.
I can’t explain it. But I know something is happening that’s more than me. And the best part is how surrendered I am to everything. It’s like I know what’s about to come even if I don’t have the full details so I am very confident in that knowing.
I love 2023 and I know it gets super awesome from here on.
How has business been for you too, clients, and general acceptability?
Since I transitioned back to my Wellness Business, Things have been a bit lowkey, which I kind of like. Because that means I am no longer running a rat race and trying to do business like every other person in this Capitalist-ridden world says it should be done. But I am doing it in a way that speaks to my soul’s design and speaks directly to the people I am meant to serve which isn’t a whole lot as opposed to when I was all over, doing the most to call the attention of a lot of people in a world where I am not even understood or accepted.
The clients I serve now are amazing people who see & accept me for everything I am and are so keyed into my offerings. And they spend a lot of money just to see me because my offerings and prices now are not cheap at all.
This is something I am realizing now when you figure out your soul’s purpose and powerful serve it and know your worth, the Universe brings people who value you and would go to any lengths to have you.
Now my cheapest offering is a 15-minute virtual Domination service (Where I only need to give commands without doing anything else) valued at $50 and the highest is valued at $1200 for 2 hours and boy do they come fleek?! Absolutely.
I love my business life right now and my clients so damn much!
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What has your sexual journey been this year? Regular or you’ve been having adventures?
It’s been on and off. But I haven’t been doing so much of partnered except for a few times say about 2ce that I couldn’t resist 2 of my massage clients and I explored with them.
A Single guy and A couple welcomed me in to play as their Unicorn.
But others have just been me playing with my subs and slaves in BDSM sessions which don’t most time include any penetration.
If you could choose between being with a girl or a guy permanently which would you choose?
A guy! I am very heterosexual. As much as I am open to trying something until I don’t enjoy it then I never try it again.
I mostly only explore girls if my partner wants to and I just feel like indulging him. Most times I’ll even prefer to just watch him do it & masturbate than participate in it.
What physical feature do you find most attractive in a guy, or girl, you will have sex with?
For me, sexual attraction goes beyond physical features. I have never seen any guy or girl and felt aroused by any of their features.
I might appreciate and admire those traits, but that’s the end. For me, it’s more intellectual & emotional than physical.
I can only be sexually attracted or interested after having a conversation with a guy or girl, and they turn me on mentally.
Or if I feel a certain pull to their magnetic field (aura). That’s it.
You took Ill early in the year (last year) How have you been managing your health since then? Do you want to share your experience managing your ailment?
Last year, I was diagnosed with a Hiatal Hernia, which caused me to have GERD, then Pneumonia.
And I have been doing great work managing my body since then.
My life had to take a 360 change to a healthier lifestyle that allows me to eat a better and more organic alkaline diet to balance out the acidic activities. I had to also remove myself from everything that wasn’t me because that diagnosis was my body telling me something.
I had overused it in a way it should never have been, and it got burnt out.
So now, I can’t do anything that causes me to exert so much energy, and my sleep pattern has changed.
I am using several supplements as well.
Had to lose some weight to keep a certain level of weight for a while, but it’s all coming back nicely.
I feel better than I have ever felt in my whole life and I see now that my body just needed my attention.
My nervous system is also slowly going back to parasympathetic and my 20years anxiety is beginning to fade off.
Let’s talk about work, and what you’ve been up to recently.
At this moment, I have been exploring and enjoying helping wealthy Men build Erotic Discipline & Structure in their lives.
As a Gentle FinDom Goddess, Erotic Domination has been my major thing for a while now.
And it’s been amazing. Especially the idea of holding space for these Men to let go of control that they are expected to by the world to hold on to so tight.
Imagine being able to surrender control for just one night. To not make any decisions, or take up any responsibilities and to just let someone else take that up for you.
It’s exhilarating and liberating. And it’s a joy to be able to offer that to these Men.
Apart from that, to be able to hold space for them to be at their most authentic erotic nature without being shamed, judged, or looked down on but accepted, guided, praised, and pleased. It makes their soul happy that I can see the innocence in them fly out.
It’s beautiful. And I didn’t expect this to be my work at this moment but I am having a blast.
I also work as an Erotic Masseuse & Travel Companion offering my signature Erotic Reiki Massage which is a blend of meditation & massage to help facilitate deep inner peace and relaxation for Men.
And within the mindfulness space, I create Guided Meditations and Free DistantReiki Healing Videos that are all Free on my YouTube page just as my way of giving back to my society.
Mental health is a very important part of our lives and right now, it’s the most fucked up for a lot of people.
And in my experience, Meditation and Reiki have been great tools for my mental, emotional & Spiritual well-being as with most people who use them too.
So after my certification as a Meditation Facilitator & Distant Reiki Specialist, I knew I didn’t want to offer myself up for profit in this capacity. So I made it my Spiritual work to offer it freely to anyone who cares to experience it.
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